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Tips / How To Children Want to Share With Other People

In everyday life, of course we are not separated from the help of others. In other words we need each other. Whether it's in a family environment, with friends, with neighbors or in a wider scope.

In this case, we as parents can teach to the kids, how to have children willing to share with friends.

The things that must be considered include:

1. Do not force the child to understand you.
For example, you take his toys and give to another child or friend. What is learned or is on the minds of children when it? Children will think that you seize the toy, to disturb him.
Well, as the person closest to your children, your job is to understand the child's mind, and give examples of verbal about sharing, not forcing the children to understand you.

2. Do not force children to share.
Children are smaller usually loves to imitate his older brothers. When he saw his brother playing with new ball or a new doll, for example, he would try to take it. But we can not expect his brother would willingly give her toys, right? Often parents forget that the meaning of sharing is respect for others. Instead of teaching children to share toys, try more emphasis to teach children to learn to respect your friends or relatives.

3. Taught to play alternately
Alternately is the basic strategy used by parents to teach children the concept of sharing.
Every time bermian together, children were asked to play in turn. The greatest child can be given confidence to manage, who is more used to playing, and hold turns anyone else. Able to sit lined up to wait their turn to play. Or left to play the others first, then when the time came for him to play would be called.

4. Do not grab toys.
Never once in a while you grab a toy from hand just to teach children about sharing. Once you teach violence, then you are teaching children the same thing. Better, to say with a good language, and handed the hand. Rest assured, the result will be far better than the first.

Learning to share will be easier when it is used in the smallest of the family. It's not just about toys, sharing a piece of cake for instance, if the child is accustomed to sharing with his brother, with his brother, with his brother, then he will be more easily shared with others.
For an only child, taught to share with the father / mother is also not nothing.

The things above are still modest in scope, for the future in which sharing can involve many people, for example to share with orphaned children in orphanages, etc.

Hopefully helpful!

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Do not Show Home Scowling into Child Work At Home

Do not show home scowling into child work at home.

Children who see their parents come home to work with depressed conditions would make it come depressed. Parents who always looks tired to go home after work will make the children lose interest in school.

Without realizing it, parents who force him to work too hard at work to harm her child attitude. This is because parents sometimes like to bring pressure from the office at home.

A study shows mothers and fathers who are too hard to work there is the possibility of bringing a sense of disappointment and fatigue to the house. As a result, children become more easy to worry, cynical about the value of lessons and exams even harder to concentrate and fatigue.

Especially when it comes to financial problems. Children who know this issue will be worse off.

Studies conducted by the Academy of Finland's educational asked more than 500 adolescents about symptoms such as fatigue, feelings of inadequacy as a student and cynicism toward the school. Parents were also asked about the job and his habit after work.

Parents who are tired physically and emotionally are more likely to have children who meet the same fate with him while at school. This can make the child is not interested in learning and school. The results of this study have been reported in the European Journal of Developmental Psychology.

"This could affect the child's education. In addition, family finances also becomes an important factor. The greater the level of concern about family finances, then the effect will also be getting worse," said Prof. Katariina Salmela-Aro, as quoted from Dailymail.

Experts in the UK revealed this was because children absorb the concerns parents and the child is less likely to get attention from parents.

"As a result, parents came to the house with state of tired and exhausted and do not have that much time with her children to just talk or hear about it. It also can affect the health and education," said Prof. Cary Cooper, a health psychologist from Lancaster University.

How to Make a Child Like Learning?

How to make a child like learning?

As a parent would hope for the best for her daughter's son.
The following tips are very decisive and effective for children focus / like to learn:

1. Pleasant atmosphere is a necessary condition necessary for the child likes to learn. According to the research on how the brain works, the memory controller in the brain would be very easy to receive and record information that goes if it is in a pleasant atmosphere.

2. Make a child happy to learn is far more important than the demands of children want to learn to become a champion or achieve a particular achievement. Children who have achievements but obtained with a forced will not last long. Children who could feel that learning is something fun will have a great curiosity, and greatly affect the success of learning in the future.

3. Identify the dominant types of learning children, whether the type of auditory (child receptive to learning by listening), visual (seeing) or kinesthetic (physical). Asking the child is continuously learning in ways that do not fit with the type of child will be learning how to make the child unable to maximally absorb the content, so the child does not develop to the maximum.

4. Learn to pause a break every 20 minutes will be far more effective than direct learning 1 hour without a break. Results showed that children are able to perform full concentration at most 20 minutes. More than that the child will begin to decrease the power of concentration. Pause time 1-2 minutes of rest will restore the power of concentration of children returning to normal.

5. Children basically have the instinct to learn everything around him. Children will be very enthusiastic, and enthusiasm for learning if the content being studied children in accordance with the child's development. Children will become easily bored if the study is too easy for him, and otherwise the child will become stressed and discouraged if studied too hard.

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Tips for Choosing Toys

When buying toys for your child, what is your consideration? price? brand? usefulness? or other options again?
In order to choose the right toy for your baby, consider the following tips:

1. Parents need to know the stages of child development, both age, emotional and physical.
2. Concerned about the toys that are used, do not buy an expensive, matching the abilities of children.
3. Notice in terms of security, both in terms of material or the workings of these toys.
4. Choose toys that color contrast and bright, to stimulate the child's sense of vision.
5. Children aged 6 months or more like toys that emit sounds and colored objects, as well as soft-textured objects.
6. Give toys like lego and the like that have a variety of forms for children aged 9 months and older. Or similar toy that can be played during the shower.
7. No need expensive toys for your child. To stimulate the creativity of your child, you can make yourself, of course you have to be creative.

Make sure put a toy that is easy to reach by the child to avoid the bad things that might happen.